How to Build Up Your Self-Confidence

By Tiffiny J. Fambro | Confidence

Aug 03

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It was not long ago that I was living a life that was making me miserable. I was in a draining marriage, my corporate career was making me have small panic attacks, I was super unhealthy, and I was 40 lbs. overweight. I knew something had to change because I was starting to get depressed.

I decided to start working out so I could lose weight. I figured if I lost a couple of pounds that would at least make me look and feel better.

How I Transformed Myself

Every day I started walking, then jogging, then I joined a gym and started lifting weights. My body started to transform before my eyes. This led me to start competing in bodybuilding figure-level fitness shows. Seeing myself take control of my health made me feel strong, confident, and in control of my life.

That was the beginning of me taking a stand and realizing that I had much more inside myself to offer the world. But it would take me several more years on my journey to figure out how to get out of my way and keep building my inner strength so that I could become the best version of myself.

Eventually, I got divorced, left the corporate world, and started my own business. The person I had to become to create the life I live today was a woman with high self-esteem, determination, a will to succeed, and most importantly, extreme confidence.

I had to dig deep and work on cultivating confidence in my:

  • Mindset
  • Behavior
  • Communication
  • Self-projection
  • Career/life path

These 5 areas of confidence are what I used to work on myself from the inside out. I had to realize that confident, successful, smart, bold women had these key factors in common when it came to creating lives that they loved.

Areas of Self-Confidence

It was understanding how to build processes and strategies around these 5 areas that helped me start my journey to:

  • Get clear on my goals
  • Build my courage and self-esteem
  • Get healthier both physically and mentally
  • Manage my time
  • Understand how to show the world my brilliance
  • Start living in alignment with my life path


If you are ready to start digging deeper and building your confidence as I did, then you are in for a treat. I have taken all of my strategies and put them into my new online course, “The 5 Keys to Magnetizing Confidence”. This course is self-paced and gives step-by-step guidance to help you start creating a roadmap for living your best life. Get more details about this course by clicking here.

About the Author

Tiffiny has a B.A. in Psychology, and master’s degree in Public Health Education. She worked in consulting for over 16 years, as well as previously owning a fitness and health business. In her personal life, she used personal development, mindset and health strategies to go from being overworked in a demanding corporate career, emotionally drained in a toxic marriage, physically unhealthy, and depressed to becoming an award-winning figure level bodybuilding athlete and entrepreneur. As a women’s empowerment coach, she works to help women get clear on their goals, build confidence, increase self-esteem, take action on their deep desires and create a life they love

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